Hey! This is the Element 4 of the series “Towards living a Better Life!” (7 February-14 March)
1st-https://heybloggya.blogspot.com/2021/02/towards-living-better-life-1-positivity.html
2nd-https://heybloggya.blogspot.com/2021/02/towards-living-better-life-2-no-to.html
3rd-https://heybloggya.blogspot.com/2021/02/towards-living-better-life-3-healthy.html
PEOPLE
People. What do you guess? Am I going to talk about the general people? Or some other people?
I am going to talk about the people in our lives, who surround us, are close to us and are our dear ones.
Well we generally don’t give a thought on it but the people in our lives make a huge difference. A person can be clearly judged by the people he surrounds himself with. Now there are two possibilities here. When we talk about a group of people, say family, we would definitely showcase what our family has taught us, what we have learnt growing up, what are the ethics taught to us by them, what environment we have always lived in, etc. But when we take a group of people, say friends, it would tell us What We Are at present, because friends and friend circles keep changing after a period of time, because that is a sign of growing up or degrading down, both are possible. Or simply it’s a sign of the only constant thing; change.
Let’s understand it like this. Your basic personality has been built by your family (parents, guardians, siblings, elderly) and your personality keeps on editing qualities with the changes in friends and friend circles and the people you meet. So basically our family has a basic permanent influence (or a longer one) on our personality and friend circles and groups determine the temporary influence on our personality. Your basic ethic influence you got from your parents of “honesty” would stay with you for a longer period. The temporary influence of your mischievous friend of “partying” would, or can, change itself to a temporary influence of your next goal oriented friend of “determination” would stay and then maybe change to another with an another friend and an another influence change.
I know it’s complicated in words, but simple in theory.
Now when we are talking about making our lives better, how does the People theory help?
It helps you in two ways.
First, you can figure out that where you stand and where you need to work on. If you think you can surround yourself with better people, do it. If you think you are already surrounded by great people, keep them safe and close to you because they are golden. Just do all the analysis of people in your life, and decide who are appropriate and healthy for you at this stage of life and make wise decisions.
Secondly, it will help you out to figure out what you really are right now! If you are surrounded with fun loving or goal oriented people then you too would be like them. If you are surrounded with too serious people, you too would be very serious kind of a person. “Because we make friends who are like us, in matters of thoughts, preferences,choices, views,etc.” it’s a fact. So make sure you are surrounded with the appropriate people so as to make a better YOU.
“PEOPLE WHO SURROUND YOU, ARE PEOPLE WHO MAKE YOU.”
So that was it. Hope I was able to be of some help and hope you liked the content.
Byee. See you soon.
Hint: next one-GOALS
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